Member Testimonials

"Since being in BBWU, a piece of me that was not only dead inside , it was a part of me I never even knew existed. The love , the bond, the motivation, the loyalty, the accountability, the respect, the growth is TOP MOTHERFUCKING TIER. I love you Pay and always will . Thank u for creating the safe heaven and allowing me not just in but seeing me for just who I am and loving me whole heartily in the process of me trying to perfect my flaws ."

Raynebow

"My BBWU sisterhood has been a game-changer for me. It's more than just a group of friends; it's a family that has uplifted, supported, and challenged me to be my best self. The bond we share is unbreakable, and I'm so grateful to have found a sisterhood that truly understands me and has helped me grow into the woman I am today. "

" I have been apart of this sisterhood for roughly a month now. Growing up i had always wanted to be apart of a sisterhood with like minded women who uplifted each other. A sisterhood where no one sees each other as competition but instead wants to be their fellow sisters be the best versions of themselves. I wanted to find a home where i felt like i belonged. A home where there was nothing but love, support, and a feeling of safety. Sadly in the other sisterhood i was apart of i couldn't find that, with BBWU i found all of that and more. The bonds i have been able to create with my fellow sisters means the world to me. Each and everyday they remind me of my worth as well as showing me that family really isn't  always defined by blood. With each assignment we are given, i step more out of my zone. This has not only helped me elevate as a influencer but its helped with my self confidence as well. My sisters at BBWU have been true inspirations and amazing role models. It is because of them that i have a better out look on life and the impact i have in this world. They have helped me see that even as a new influencer within the community I am making a positive difference in this world which has always been one of my goals in life. With the encouragement and support they show, i have faith i'll continue doing well in my journey not only in our sisterhood but with life as well. I highly encourage women and even men to find that special sisterhood/brotherhood where they can call home. We all deserve to be apart of a tribe that helps us do better as human beings. We all deserve a tribe that reminds us we are loved, seen, heard, and valued. I will forever be blessed and so appreciative for my tribe and fellow sisters. "

Rebal

"When I first came across BBWU on fb I had no idea what it was.I thought it was just another plus size group and boy was I wrong.It turned out to be a group of women all different shapes sharing like things. I was a proud bbw but was not confident. Since joining instead of just taking face pictures I now take full body pics with mad confidence. I was ashamed of my health and me being on an oxygen tank but they welcomed me with open arms no judgement. I have moved up and now I am a Mentor and Professor of BBWU"

Ash Gates

"When I first joined the sisterhood I was super excited about growing and joining but also scared of not being excepted. But I'm so glad I did its been an amazing journey and so much more to come. The main reason I joined because I wanted to grown in every aspect of my life from confidence, spiritually and leadership. The challenges I faced in my past people not wanting to be my friend because I didn't look like them, they more so wants to be my friend behind closed doors. But I learned I'm not everyone cup of tea. The bond of my sisterhood has been a profound force in my life. It has shaped me, encouraged me, and reminded me of my strength during both my brightest and darkest moments. Through the unwavering support of my sisters, I’ve learned what it means to truly belong, to feel seen, and to be understood without needing to explain myself. They’ve been my cheerleaders, my confidants, and my source of strength when the world felt heavy. This Sisterhood has taught me resilience, the importance of lifting each other up, and the power of shared experiences. In their wisdom and love, I’ve found courage to face challenges, and in their laughter, I’ve found joy in the everyday moments. They inspire me to strive for more, to be kinder, and to never doubt my worth. This connection has not only enriched my life but has also shown me the power of collective growth and support. It’s a reminder that we are stronger together, always lifting as we rise. BBWU has been a constant source of strength and inspiration in my life. It’s more than just the bond we share as family; it’s the foundation of trust, love, and unwavering support that has shaped who I am. Growing up with sisters, I learned the value of having a safe space to be myself, to express my dreams, and even my fears, knowing that I would always be met with understanding. Through every high and low, my sisters have been there, offering wisdom, encouragement, and perspective. They’ve taught me what it means to be resilient, showing me how to stand tall in the face of adversity. When I doubted myself, they reminded me of my potential. When I succeeded, they celebrated me like no one else could. This sisterhood has also deepened my understanding of empathy, loyalty, and shared growth. It’s a relationship where competition is replaced with collaboration, and where lifting each other up becomes second nature. The love and support from my sisters have given me the courage to pursue my goals, knowing I’m never alone on this journey. In many ways, they are my mirror, reflecting back my strengths and showing me the parts of myself that I sometimes fail to see. Their influence has not only shaped my personal life but also how I approach my work and relationships. Sisterhood has instilled in me the importance of community, of surrounding yourself with those who see your value and push you to be your best self. The impact of this sisterhood is a gift I carry with me daily, and it’s a reminder that no matter where life takes me, I always have a solid foundation in their love and support. BBWU is my safe place and I'm so blessed to be apart of this amazing sisterhood. I love each of you for free."

Soysha J 

"I have been in the sisterhood for 2yrs now… When first joining I was a little hesitant being it was a all women because I have had so many bad experience but i said I shall not have the spirit of fear and I stepped out my zone and submitted my application to join.. Reasons why I joined is because I wanted to make a better me I wanted to be around women who looked like me and could help me with fashion tips, everyday life and just have a bond that I actually could have with a sister/bestie.. Since joining this sisterhood omg my confidence was always there but honey u can’t tell me I’m Not That Girl now… I’m more self aware of my attitude I’m not always lashing out like I used to I actually turn the cheek at times( The lord not done working on me lol).. I have been able to when I’m feeling down been able to talk to my sisters without wondering will I be judged for what I’m gone say and what I did or doing. Mentally im at a 9 since being in this sisterhood these ladies are short for nothing but amazing I thank god for softening my heart to join . Overall if you are someone who always wanted a sisterhood outside of blood Baby I wouldn't look any further BBW University is the place to be they will welcome you with open arms with no judgement The love they give is Genuine."

PoohBabii

"BBW University was the decision I Have ever made for myself.  Ya'll have taught me that you can still have loyal friendships and sisters even after bad ones.  I've also learned that distance doesn't mean anything, but loyalty, dedication, love and compassion with trust is all you need and let me tell you ,  our sisterhood have that and some.  ya'll taught me it's okay to be open and transparent,  your story can help somebody else and I love each and everyone yall "

President Queen Bee