Have you ever found yourself tearing down other women when you feel offended or hurt? It’s time to confront that part of you, the mean girl within. This behavior might stem from your own experiences of being torn down by family, friends, or people you trusted. But you are not defined by those moments. There is nothing beautiful about hurting others to feel better about yourself.
Many believe that putting on a wig, a SHEIN outfit, some heels, and attending events makes you a “baddie.” But a true baddie is someone who is succeeding in their dreams while cheering others on to pursue theirs. Here are some tips on how to be a baddie in the plus-size community:
Tips on How to Be a Baddie in the Plus-Size Community
1. Become a Mentor
Share your experiences and knowledge with other women. Help them navigate their own journeys with confidence and grace.
2. Challenge Other Women to Love Themselves
Encourage self-love and acceptance. Remind them of their worth and beauty, regardless of societal standards.
3. Stop Fitting In, Start Standing Out
Embrace your uniqueness. Don’t conform to fit in; instead, stand out and be proud of who you are.
4. Uplift Women
Celebrate the achievements of other women. Clap for their successes as loudly as you would for your own.
5. Create Safe Spaces for Women to Grow and Flourish
Foster environments where women feel safe to express themselves and grow. Encourage open dialogue and support.
6. Water Others
Nurture the growth of those around you. Offer support, advice, and a listening ear whenever needed.
7. Spend More Time with Your Inner Self
Reflect on your thoughts and feelings. Understand your motivations and work on personal growth.
Social Media Tips
• Follow People That Inspire You
Surround yourself with positive influences. Follow accounts that motivate and uplift you.
• Remove Distractions
It’s easy to keep drama-filled people around, but they are a distraction. Delete them and keep growing. If someone isn’t inspiring you, they are distracting you.
The BBW University is here to help because the plus-size community is amazing and filled with so many beautiful women. It’s time to show up and show out. We are bigger than the mess, the drama, and the problems. We have faced so much in society regarding how they treat us. We can’t afford to turn on each other.
Together, we can create a community of strong, supportive, and successful women. Let’s heal that mean girl within and build each other up.
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